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Kiddie Meltdown Alert: Ways To Keep It Down During A Party

By Lilly Deane 2 years ago 2123 Views 3 comments

Kids Party TableLilly Deane has been a kids party planner for several years now. She shares her personal experiences as an events coordinator at Madfun and in blogs like this one to help parents throw the best party ever for their own kids. In this article, she will be giving tips on how to control temper tantrums in kiddie parties.

Kiddie Meltdown Alert: Ways To Keep It Down During A Party

A kiddie party is supposed to be anything but sad, grumpy, unhappy, angry, and out of control. Instead, this is supposed to be happy, light, enjoyable, and worry-free. How many guests are coming to your child’s kiddie party? How well do you know the guests? You see, although their parents are very classy, this is not an assurance that their little tots are the perfect princes and princesses who behave well in public. What will you do if someone ruins your supposed to be perfect kiddie party with a temper tantrum?

 Ways to Control Temper Tantrum During a Party

Crying KidHave a back-up plan as early as now. Don’t wait for it to happen when you can control temper tantrum before it starts. You may need to control this though differently during a kiddie party than you normally would with your own child on ordinary days. Here are some suggestions:


  • Create a distraction. Get an entertainer. Clowns or magicians should keep the kids busy for an hour or two. It’s different seeing magic tricks personally than on TV. Other ideas would include photo booths, games, face painting, or games. Temper tantrums or crying could be contagious, but so is being happy. Keep most of your little guests happy and the others will be joining in the fun.
  • Keep the music playing. Music is a very powerful tool that you can use to manipulate how people feel for a particular moment. You can use these two ways to control emotional outburst in kids. If you just want to keep them happy the moment they enter the venue, then play pop songs that convey happiness. Play these types of songs throughout the party and you may be able to send them home happy too. You can also opt to combine this with calming music. This should keep the kids’ energy at a low when their energies are too pumped up, one of the reasons why kids sometimes experience sudden bouts of outbursts.
  • Don’t lose it too. Adding fuel to fire could make it worse. With one uncontrollable kid near you, it is very easy for you to lose your own cool, but don’t even think of taking that road. You could end up being your own party pooper and you definitely would not want your kid to remember you as the person who ruined his or her party. If the kid’s parent can’t control his or her child’s temper tantrum, you may need to take over and you won’t be able to do that with a hot head.
  • Use rewards. Now, rewarding a bad attitude on normal days is definitely not recommended in controlling temper tantrums. But during a party, you need all the tricks you need up your sleeve especially when the problem is a yelling or crying kid. A small toy or sweet treats should stop the temper tantrum before the other kids start acting the same.
  • Keep the party short.Long parties put a stress on the kids and parents alike. Keep the party short to about an hour or two. Although parties are fun for kids, there is still no place like home where they could get to do the things that they want such as sleep. Set it at a time where it’s not their nap time so that they won’t end up being crabby during the party.

Clown Party Table

Crying Princess

Additional Reminders

 Aside from kiddie meltdown control, make the party happier too by choosing a great theme. This should include your kid’s party costume, themed menu, and party décor. Plan ahead of time so that you don’t forget important details.








 Lilly Deane PictureAbout Lilly Deane:

I am one of the content curators at Madfun and other kids websites. Aside from writing, I also spend most of my time with my young family. I also love to paint, cook and organize kiddy parties.

You can also get in contact with me on Google+ or Twitter: @LillyDeane01

Nikki 2 years ago at 1:03 AM
This is great. I love these ideas! Thanks!
Linda Manns Linneman 2 years ago at 7:05 PM
These are some great suggestions. I have two young grandkids so these pointers will help
vickie couturier 2 years ago at 3:55 PM
I have 13 grandchildren from age 11 months to 14 yrs so theres always a melfdown somewhere,,so good tips to have on hand